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When we are meeting new people online it can be wonderfully exciting to get to know a potential new lover. However, while you get to know each other on an intimate level you must be careful not to give too much personal information too soon. We’ll discuss some ways you can protect yourself, your identity and your finances while still being able to have fun on your favorite Bisexual Dating Website. We’ll also give you some tips on how to safely set up a first date!

Protect Your Identity

Your Profile should NEVER include:

• Your Full Name- always use an alias. You can be creative and have fun making a username that might describe your character traits, hobbies your into, sexual desires or orientation, or something completely obscure.

• Your Address- Give your City and nothing more! All your potential matches need to know is if you’re in the same city or metropolitan area. Don’t tell people where you live with meeting them in public first and getting to know them a bit.

• Your Phone Number or Email- Your phone number and email address can be easily linked to your name and identity. Citybi.com gives you the ability to chat live on the website and send private messages that are sent directly to your email address. This allows you to communicate safely before exchanging personal contact info.

How to identify and report suspicious behavior

Be Leary When:

• A user wants you to communicate with email or by phone too quickly. Some people might be just eager to get to know you but you must keep your guard up and if they are genuine they will respect your privacy.

• Someone asks you for money. Do not, under any circumstances, transfer money to some that you’ve never met before. Scammers will sometimes give you a convincing sob story, don’t buy it!

• A message is hard to read because of poor English, grammar, or spelling. On Citybi.com there are many international members and they may just want to get know you and be friends. Many scammers may originate outside of the United States so be mindful of this.

First Date!

Always take these steps when going on a first date with someone you’ve met online:

• Agree to meet in a public place in day light. A coffee shop or a restaurant is a great place to meet for a first date. Public places are generally safe and places with a wait staff or retail clerk will ensure other people will see you for the duration of your date.

• Tell a friend or family member about your date. Tell someone close to you where you will be and when you’ll be returning. Without being rude, of course, keep in contact with your friend during your date, at least before and after. If you do hit it off with your date and you plan to go for a walk or see a movie, tell your friends where you’re going.

• Make your own way to and from the date. Drive your own car, a cab, Uber, or have a friend take you, either way DO NOT let your date pick you up or drop you off. Providing your transportation leaves you in control, this is important to staying safe on the first date.

• Citybi.com recommends keeping it to caffeine on the first date but if you do decide to have a drink, limit yourself to 1 or 2. Alcohol can be a vital asset to the dating world but getting too loose on the first date with a stranger can be asking for trouble.

Bisexual online dating can be a fun and satisfying experience and if you follow these suggestions it will ensure you always have a great experience. Stay safe and we’ll see you on Citybi.com.

Whether you’re married or just dating chances are you’d love a vacation in a Bisexual friendly atmosphere where you can truly relax and let loose. Citybi.com is passionate about connecting people, whether it is bisexual couples looking for a third or another couple to share an intimate experience with. Another great way to connect with other bisexuals is to meet other people from around the world while vacationing. So Citybi.com has come up with a brief list of Bisexual friendly vacation spots around the world.

Cancun, Mexico is home to the 5 star all inclusive resort called the Oasis Sens. This adult only resort has several restaurants and bars and 3 pools, ocean and bay view rooms, and in room Jacuzzis and private balconies. This romantic themed resort offers an array of accommodations like planned daily activities, free golf, and nightly entertainment. And of course all food and beverage included! The Oasis Sens is an affiliate of the International Gay and Lesbian Travel Association, so you’re bound to meet some other likeminded couples.

Swinger’s cruises like Bliss Cruise are an option for the very adventurous. This is not just a clothing optional boat (except for the dining areas). The Bliss Cruise has areas of the ship which are designated playrooms for sensual interactions. Meeting bisexual couples on this cruise will be easy and having a great time is almost guaranteed. The cruise organizers put on daily parties like Roman Orgy Toga Party, Wild Wild West, Glow Panty Rave, and Fetish Friday.

London is a great city for swingers’ saunas. There are several throughout the city and they all have the same basic £20 entrance fee. They are typically towel only clubs, and have a variety of public areas and private rooms. They typically cater to straight couples and single women, and sometimes will restrict access to single men as not to unbalance the ratio. Specifically, Rio’s in London has a good gay following so this would be the best suggested sauna for bisexual couples.

In Peregian Beach, Australia is the Hideaway Noosa Men’s Beach Resort. Hideaway Noosa is specifically marketed toward Gay and Bi Men for a comfortable get away. They have a daily pass that one can purchase for access to the resort just for the day if you stay somewhere else. This would be an excellent place for Bi men to meet other Gay or Bisexual men. Women might find this resort less appealing.

You may have heard of Hedonism 2 in Jamaica, its quiet popular among the clothing optional crowd as it is a clothing optional resort. The resort is decent as far as food and room quality but the atmosphere is excellent. The service is great and the people you meet are the real reason for staying at “Hedo 2.” If you really want to meet other couples or singles go during the busy season, there are a lot more activities going on and a lot more people to meet, couples and singles in the peak season. We recommend this vacation for bisexual women but men will also find likeminded people here.

If you want a relaxing vacation where you’re likely to meet other bisexual couples or singles check out these vacation spots. They’ll let you have a carefree, exciting, and enjoyable vacation with the right types of people you’d like to meet. Citybi.com can help you connect with bisexuals you meet from all over the world and let you keep in touch after your vacation is over. You can post pictures and videos from your vacation and plan events and meet ups with other bisexuals you’ve met around the world or couples you meet on Citybi. Citybi.com can help connect you with other couples that might want to vacation at the same types of places. Citybi.com is free and easy.

Are you Bicurious? Have you sometimes noticed that you are attracted to the same sex but never felt comfortable expressing your attraction or didn’t know how to go about exploring those feelings? Take the leap. You have the ability, will, and desire to satisfy those same sex feelings and Citybi.com can help. If you don’t want to come right out and tell the world that is perfectly ok. If you feel you want to explore this side of your sexuality before you decide to come out to your friends and family, Citybi.com can help you. Citybi.com can help you find a discrete bisexual friend to introduce you to bisexuality. On citybi.com everyone is at least a little bisexual.

Spring is the perfect time to find a discrete bisexual partner or couple to help you see the better side of your sexuality. The sun is coming back, the snow is disappearing, the trees are starting to bud their leaves, bees and birds are coming back around, Life all around us is starting fresh again. It’s a perfect time for you to start fresh too, don’t go on another year suppressing your natural desires. This is your instincts we are talking about here. Don’t allow our society to determine what part of your life you choose to share and what to hide. You have the right to be yourself and if you can’t find understanding and loving people in the world, then you’re not looking on Citybi.com.

Citybi.com is a social dating community for bisexuals and anyone in between. There are tons of bisexuals in every major city looking to make friends with Bicurious people like you. Just register a free profile and you’ll have the opportunity to meet Bisexuals, Gays, Lesbians, Transgender, Couples and other Bicurious people. It only takes a couple minutes to register and it’s free. Once you create a profile, you can communicate with other bisexuals a few different ways on citybi.com. You can post messages in the Citybi community where all members can see your message, you can search for and browse other bisexuals to meet and send them friend requests, publicly write a message or post a picture on another member’s wall, and personalize your profile with a background banner, a profile picture, and a sexy description of yourself and what or who you’re into.

On citybi.com our pro-members can create and manage Groups and Events but all members can join groups if they are of interest. When you join a group and post a message to a group all the members in that group are notified and can see your message. If you make friends and are invited to an event, you can see the progress of the event and any changes to the time and location of the meet up or gathering.
Citybi has members in most major cities in the US and some international cities like London, Toronto, and Sydney. The Major cities like New York, Houston, L.A., San Diego, Chicago, and San Antonio have lots of other bisexuals looking to make friends with other bisexual and bicurious people. If you don’t see your city on Citybi just Contact Us and we’ll add it and help you find bisexuals near you.

So, Spring into Bisexuality and don’t look back!

Buying gifts for your significant other can be as torment as it is pleasure, especially if you together for a long time and you feel like you have already bought all there is. Perfume? Checked. Button down shirt? Checked. A dinner at a fancy restaurant? Checked… And you could probably go on like this for hours. Do not worry, the world is filled with gifts not yet bought and acts of love not yet performed. You just need some drive to get your imagination going.

Here, we will try to be that drive, by giving you a list of some possibly cool ideas for presenting to your loved one.

A Free Pass to Your Life…

If you are not yet living with your partner, than you could give him/her some sort of free pass for your life. You can start with buying one more toothbrush for your bathroom or leaving some room in your wardrobe for his/her stuff. If you really want to step up the game, the keys of your apartment would not be such a bad idea.

A Skill for a Lifetime

Nowadays, there is a course for everything. Find some area where your partner always wanted to participate (cooking, photography, etc.) and enroll him/her on the course. Or be slightly selfish and choose a massage course. No one will benefit of it as you will. Also, you can take a short massage course and give your significant other a massage he/she could only dream about.

Something to Remember

You know all the jokes about Facebook’s profile photo and tagged photo? Well, unless you are incredibly photogenic and have a great camera, your photos with your partner are probably mostly tagged photos. So, take a day to create amazing memories, by hiring a photographer, going to some place that is special for you, choosing a nice outfit and striking a pose. Do not be too stiff, though; the greatest love pictures are the one photographed spontaneously.

For the Love of Romance…

Yes, romantic dinners might be so yesterday’s idea, but if you play your cards right, you may wow your partner. First advice would be to cook yourself, and to decorate your dining room, terrace or backyard. You can also search for a chic and romantic restaurant you never went to. And, why not, even take a daytrip to some other city to discover its wonders.

A Day of Pampering

Full spa treatment – do not mind if we do. Nothing beats a day of over-the-top pampering – from a relaxing massage (if it is a chocolate one even better), to pedicure and eventually a sauna; you will feel like you have got your own day in paradise.

Make Your Own Movie Theater…

Did you know that during the ‘70s, there were hundreds of adult movie theaters spread across U.S.? Since now it is difficult to find one, recreate something similar in your room. If you lack of inspiration, remember the Scorsese’s Taxi Driver and the famous scene from the theater. Just do not run away as De Niro’s date. After you are done with creating the atmosphere, rent an adult movie and watch it with your partner.

Three Is (Not) a Crowd

If both you and your partner have no problems with experimenting and if you have ever talked about a threesome and never seemed to make it happen, there is no better time than now. Just make sure that you choose the person with who you will share your intimacy very well, and that both you and your partner agree on the choice. Note that a threesome should not be a surprise, because both of you need to be a part of the planning process.

These were just some ideas to get you started, of course, you should choose your gifts based on your significant other’s unique personality and preferences. Good luck.

If you’re wondering what to get your significant other for Valentine’s Day, look no further, get him or her a threesome! If you don’t know where to start in finding a third to complete your trio, check out our threesome guide.

Has your partner mentioned or even straight out asked you for a threesome but you have just never made it happen? It’s understandable to be timid and shy about having a threesome. It is a very intimate part of your life that you will be sharing with another person. It can be a wonderful experience if you do it with compassion and make sure you are both 100% comfortable with the person, the location and atmosphere, and the specific acts you intend to engage in.

The person that you want to turn your duo into a trio needs to be someone you both agree on. Do not plan a ‘surprise’ threesome. You both need to be part of the planning process for such an intimate and memorable night. You both need to tell each other what you want out of this threesome and be upfront with any potential third partners about what you expect from each other.

The place and the atmosphere are incredibly important. Your bedroom is of course an option but maybe you would prefer a downtown hotel. Creating an atmosphere is more important than the actual location. You could play music, light candles, and decorate with flowers and red silk sheets. You’ll most likely want a bottle of Champaign or a nice wine for a Valentine’s Day toast; this will also loosen your inhibitions and calm your nerves. Do not make the decision to have a threesome while under the influence of alcohol. Rather make the decision while sober minded, and then enjoy a beverage when with your partners.

Set boundaries with your partners as to what each person is comfortable with. This can be done while you select a partner, when searching for a threesome partner be upfront about what you want from them. This will avoid anyone feeling uncomfortable or disappointed.

Having a threesome can be a wonderful experience for you and your significant other. It is a very fragile situation though and must be treated with incredible care and compassion. Do not pressure or surprise your partner into any situation that you have not discussed in detail. Citybi.com can help you find a partner for your threesome and you can meet other people that might be able to give you advice or share their experiences. If you and your partner are interested in a threesome you can register a couples profile for free.