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CityBi Meetup in Las Vegas Coming June 3rd!
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CityBi Meetup in Las Vegas Coming June 3rd!

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Premium Membership Meetup in Las Vegas, Nevada on June 3rd at 8pm! Dating as a bisexual man, woman, or couple is becoming more fun, easy, and social, with our new, CityBi Premium Member Meetups. This feature is guaranteed to grow your connections wit...h bisexual men and women in your city. Our Premium Members are invited to exclusive, social events to get to know local singles and couples. Members can get acquainted face-to-face and connect with like-minded bisexuals, who are looking for all types of relationships including casual and long-term. The next CityBi Meetup is coming up on June 3 in Las Vegas, Nevada. Our meetups will be hosted in luxurious locations such as casino lounges and hotels, and we provide light refreshments. If you are a Premium Member, the meetup is included in your membership, and you will receive an invitation with all of the details. If you are new to CityBi, Premium Membership is $99 per person, or $149 per couple/year. With premium membership you can attend all meetup events in your city, plus gain access to our online community which includes: advanced searches, 24/7 chat with members, voice, text, and video chat, and you can post comments on profiles that you like. Whether you have already been chatting with members online, or prefer to get to know a potential match in person, we provide plenty of options to help our members connect. Meetups are the perfect complement to your online CityBi Premium Membership. Make friends, expand your network, and meet potential matches. Sign up today and get involved in this exciting and growing community. More
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3 Things You Need to Know About Dating a Bisexual
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3 Things You Need to Know About Dating a Bisexual

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If you are interested in dating a bisexual man or woman, there are many questions that can come up if you have never dated a bisexual before. Being bi is still a bit of a mystery for many, and that’s okay. The important thing is that you are open to ...learning more about dating us! For the most part, we find that others are just curious what it’s like to be bisexual and of course, what it is like to date one! We identify with both the gay and straight communities Generally speaking, most of us were raised in a heteronormative environment and likely started off being attracted to the opposite gender. Of course, after discovering we were also attracted to the same gender, we found likeminded men and women in the LGQBT communities. This has allowed us to see opinions, views, interests and misconceptions in both gay and straight cultures. We probably know a lot about both communities, so if you’re going to date us you can expect us to be well informed on issues and opinions from both of these worlds. We may be more open to your fantasies One of the misconceptions of being bisexual is that we cannot commit to only one person or that we will want everyone we see. This is not true. We can stick to the same person for the rest of our lives and still be bisexual! However, if you happen to be interested in a MMF or MFF threesome, there is a good chance we would be happy to fulfill the fantasy with you. In fact, if you really want to add a threesome to your sexual experiences at some point in your future relationship (and many couples do!) then dating a bisexual is a great way to increase the chance that the fantasy will be mutual. Or you can find a third that is bisexual, to complement your existing relationship. Being attracted to both genders doesn’t mean everyone is attracted to us Some people may think that being bisexual is the best of both worlds because we have more options but this is not necessarily the case. Just because we are attracted to both genders doesn’t mean everyone is hot for us. In fact, many people are a bit hesitant to date us because they think we are actually gay or transitioning to being gay. And just like straight or gay relationships, not everyone we meet and like is going to like us back. So even though we like two genders, our success rate is likely not any higher than yours. Dating a bisexual man or woman is a great way to meet an open and interesting individual and to learn more about a sexual identity. You will find there are many positive benefits to dating a bisexual man or woman. Sign up to CityBi today to start a free profile to meet bisexual men and women that live close to you and want to meet.     More
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How to Find a Bisexual Third for a Threesome
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How to Find a Bisexual Third for a Threesome

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Having a threesome is an exciting fantasy come true for many couples that are looking to add a new level of excitement and intimacy to their love life. As long as everyone is on the same page regarding what a threesome means, and what it does not mea...n for the relationship, everyone can enjoy a new level of erotic and healthy fun. The most challenging aspect of having a threesome is bringing it up to your partner and figuring out how to make it happen. Fortunately, after realizing there is equal excitement, finding a third for your threesome will not be difficult at all with the right approach. Although it’s possible to meet your threesome third at a bar, club or by inviting a friend into the mix, the best way is to find him or her on a bisexual dating site.  By using a bisexual dating site, you are more likely to find a third for a threesome that is sexually comfortable with both men and women.  On a dating site, everyone is out seeking the same thing, rather than making decisions after drinking at a party or bar that you may later regret.  We recommended going online to find someone outside of you or your partner’s circle of friends. This will avoid any awkwardness, hurt feelings or drama after the threesome has happened. By going online everyone knows what they want and you will find a third that is actively seeking a couple to fulfill their own fantasy. It’s the safest and most seamless approach. The Best Way to Set Up a Threesome Online Join a Bisexual Dating Site We recommended that you set up a dating profile as a couple seeking a third for a threesome on a bisexual dating site.  A bisexual dating network will have people that are definitely interested in both Guys and Girls, which is key to making your threesome happen.  Creating a profile as a couple will let any potential third see how attractive you are. This also avoids having to introduce your third to your other half on a date. If you are going to have a threesome together, go through the entire process as a couple on a bisexual dating site.  Make it something you do together and this will result in a more fun and fulfilling experience for everyone involved. Post A Variety of Pictures If you and your partner are searching for a third online be sure to post a variety of pictures. Some ideas can include: Solo pictures, especially shots that show off your bodies. Pictures that highlight any kinks or preferences you would explore with a third such as BDSM or role play scenarios. Include pictures as a couple to show how you look and interact together so that potential thirds can get a sense of your chemistry. When it comes to posting pictures more is better. It shows that you are serious about finding a third and it helps that person to decide even before meeting if they are going to want to have a threesome with you and your partner. Let your pictures do the talking for you! Send Messages The last step to finding a third for a threesome is to browse profiles with your partner to see who turns you both on. If you both like someone and their profile explicitly states, or subtly suggests they would be open to it, send a message! Picking up a third with your partner is incredibly sexy. Message your potential third with a compliment and end with a flirty and engaging question to keep the conversation going. A threesome is exciting, sexually adventurous and incredibly hot. If you and your partner are considering adding a third to your sex life, set up a profile on CityBi.com and browse thousands of profiles to meet likeminded bisexual men and bisexual women in your area.   More
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The Benefits of Dating a Bisexual Man
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The Benefits of Dating a Bisexual Man

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If you have never considered dating a bisexual man you may be missing out! The one misconception that women have about dating a bisexual guy is that he will be cheating on you with every willing man he encounters. Nothing could be farther from the tr...uth. You could also say that a straight man will cheat with every woman he encounters but we know that’s just not true. Bisexuality is simply the preference for men and women, not a constant need to sleep with both. However, relationships are defined differently for everyone but that brings us to the first point: You Can Talk to Your Bisexual Boyfriend Openly About Sex, Expectations and Boundaries A bisexual man is more likely to expect and engage in a conversation as the relationship unfolds and is able to discuss the nature of your sexual relationship openly and maturely. It’s a benefit over most heteronormative relationships where monogamy and gender roles are the expected status quo. Most hetero couples don’t have a conversation about the nature of their sexual relationship unless they happen to fall outside of the norm such as being polygamous. Once you’re on the same page about fidelity you can start to discuss turn-ons and kinks, which can take years without openly discussing sexuality! Your Bisexual Boyfriend May be Part of Another Alternative Lifestyle Whether it’s goth, pagan, vegans, activists or cosplay we find that the world of bisexuality helps men to feel comfortable and confident in other lifestyles that many hetero men would find too far outside of their typical realm. This benefits any woman that likes to travel off the beaten path to gain new experiences and to meet exciting people. Of course many straight men are goth and many bisexual men may be most happy in the garage drinking beer with their buddies but generally speaking bisexual men have already broken one of society’s rules so why not another? In other words, dating bisexual men is exciting, revolutionary and experiential. You Could Join In Being bisexual does not make a man sex-crazed, inherently more driven to cheat or more likely to want group sex or a polygamous relationship but if that does turn your crank, you’re going to be more likely to fulfil your MMF threesome fantasy with a bisexual boyfriend rather than with a straight one. Especially if you crave an equally pleasurable group experience rather than the mainstream porn version of a female being used by multiple men (all good if it turns you on, just saying). Unfortunately, both men and women have been raised to repress their desires and to deny themselves sex that does not turn straight men on. Bisexual men have already broken that mould so if you’re one to cross those lines too, do it with your bisexual boyfriend! Dating a bisexual guy can be the best thing that ever happened to your love and sex life with open and honest communication and the understanding that bisexuality is defined and embraced differently in every relationship. Give it a Try - Date a Bi!   More
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My first bi-sexperience .... a great story!

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  Now, I had always considered myself a flaming heterosexual, ... at least until my 30's.  That's when I started getting hit on by women right and left.  At first,  I was merely flattered but, it wasn't long before I began to thin...k that perhaps they were on to something.   Now, the fellow I was seeing at the time was a lot of fun and very open minded.  From the very start, I knew I wasn't the only gal he was seeing wish was fine with me.  I didn't want him all to myself because, although he was so much fun, he was way too much work for one woman.  lol We'd been going out for a couple of months and were enjoying what we called "reindeer games", which was just some light bdsm.  I was intrigued with how empowering submission could be. Anyway, when I expressed my curiosity to him, it was no surprise that he knew someone willing to play.  Now, before I tell the rest, there's somethings you should know. I am a stand up comedian with a real predilection for dick jokes.  I can, at times, be a real smart ass and a lot to put up with in the bedroom. I've always said a really patient man can maintain an erection when I get out of bed to write something funny down.  Most guys just love a gal with a sense of humor, ... until they're naked.  LOL! This guy was a fan of my comedy and, apparently, was making his other girlfriends watch a recording of my comedy show.   So, one night he invited his other playmate to go on a date with us.   I had met her once in passing and found her very alluring so, I just knew this was going to be fun.  The three of us went out for drinks and then, back to his place for some reindeer games.  We got all dressed up in our finest leather apparel and so the games began.  The first thing they did was tie me up and blindfold me.  So, there I was, restrained, blindfolded and all a quiver with anticipation .... when suddenly the two of them began to relentlessly do my jokes at me!  HA!  If you only knew how much I have that coming!  I will go to my grave respecting the crap out of both of them for that!  Not only was it brilliant and funny but, what a great little ice breaker, too!   Well, once we regained composure, we got down to serious business.  Now, it's very important, when having a threesome, that someone be the Moe. (stooges reference)  It's crucial that someone be in charge, take the lead,  choreograph  and orchestrate, ... making sure everyone's needs are attended to and a good time is had by all.  She was amazing at this!!  Her plan had a title and a plot, which she revealed in the sexiest bedroom voice I have ever heard ... and, best of all, ... it was all about the seduction of yours truly!  WOW!  Imagine your most attentive lover, ... then, double it!  I have never been more titillated or made to feel so sexy and desired.   We all continued as playmates on and off for the following year.  I use to say that the 3 of us made such a lovely couple.  That was nearly 20 years ago and she and I are still the very closest of friends!   More
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Bisexual Dating Safety and Security
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Bisexual Dating Safety and Security

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When we are meeting new people online it can be wonderfully exciting to get to know a potential new lover. However, while you get to know each other on an intimate level you must be careful not to give too much personal information too soon. We’ll di...scuss some ways you can protect yourself, your identity and your finances while still being able to have fun on your favorite Bisexual Dating Website. We’ll also give you some tips on how to safely set up a first date! Protect Your Identity Your Profile should NEVER include: • Your Full Name- always use an alias. You can be creative and have fun making a username that might describe your character traits, hobbies your into, sexual desires or orientation, or something completely obscure. • Your Address- Give your City and nothing more! All your potential matches need to know is if you’re in the same city or metropolitan area. Don’t tell people where you live with meeting them in public first and getting to know them a bit. • Your Phone Number or Email- Your phone number and email address can be easily linked to your name and identity. Citybi.com gives you the ability to chat live on the website and send private messages that are sent directly to your email address. This allows you to communicate safely before exchanging personal contact info. How to identify and report suspicious behavior Be Leary When: • A user wants you to communicate with email or by phone too quickly. Some people might be just eager to get to know you but you must keep your guard up and if they are genuine they will respect your privacy. • Someone asks you for money. Do not, under any circumstances, transfer money to some that you’ve never met before. Scammers will sometimes give you a convincing sob story, don’t buy it! • A message is hard to read because of poor English, grammar, or spelling. On Citybi.com there are many international members and they may just want to get know you and be friends. Many scammers may originate outside of the United States so be mindful of this. First Date! Always take these steps when going on a first date with someone you’ve met online: • Agree to meet in a public place in day light. A coffee shop or a restaurant is a great place to meet for a first date. Public places are generally safe and places with a wait staff or retail clerk will ensure other people will see you for the duration of your date. • Tell a friend or family member about your date. Tell someone close to you where you will be and when you’ll be returning. Without being rude, of course, keep in contact with your friend during your date, at least before and after. If you do hit it off with your date and you plan to go for a walk or see a movie, tell your friends where you’re going. • Make your own way to and from the date. Drive your own car, a cab, Uber, or have a friend take you, either way DO NOT let your date pick you up or drop you off. Providing your transportation leaves you in control, this is important to staying safe on the first date. • Citybi.com recommends keeping it to caffeine on the first date but if you do decide to have a drink, limit yourself to 1 or 2. Alcohol can be a vital asset to the dating world but getting too loose on the first date with a stranger can be asking for trouble. Bisexual online dating can be a fun and satisfying experience and if you follow these suggestions it will ensure you always have a great experience. Stay safe and we’ll see you on Citybi.com. More
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Bisexual Couples Vacation Hot Spots
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Bisexual Couples Vacation Hot Spots

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Whether you’re married or just dating chances are you’d love a vacation in a Bisexual friendly atmosphere where you can truly relax and let loose. Citybi.com is passionate about connecting people, whether it is bisexual couples looking for a third or... another couple to share an intimate experience with. Another great way to connect with other bisexuals is to meet other people from around the world while vacationing. So Citybi.com has come up with a brief list of Bisexual friendly vacation spots around the world. Cancun, Mexico is home to the 5 star all inclusive resort called the Oasis Sens. This adult only resort has several restaurants and bars and 3 pools, ocean and bay view rooms, and in room Jacuzzis and private balconies. This romantic themed resort offers an array of accommodations like planned daily activities, free golf, and nightly entertainment. And of course all food and beverage included! The Oasis Sens is an affiliate of the International Gay and Lesbian Travel Association, so you’re bound to meet some other likeminded couples. Swinger’s cruises like Bliss Cruise are an option for the very adventurous. This is not just a clothing optional boat (except for the dining areas). The Bliss Cruise has areas of the ship which are designated playrooms for sensual interactions. Meeting bisexual couples on this cruise will be easy and having a great time is almost guaranteed. The cruise organizers put on daily parties like Roman Orgy Toga Party, Wild Wild West, Glow Panty Rave, and Fetish Friday. London is a great city for swingers’ saunas. There are several throughout the city and they all have the same basic £20 entrance fee. They are typically towel only clubs, and have a variety of public areas and private rooms. They typically cater to straight couples and single women, and sometimes will restrict access to single men as not to unbalance the ratio. Specifically, Rio’s in London has a good gay following so this would be the best suggested sauna for bisexual couples. In Peregian Beach, Australia is the Hideaway Noosa Men’s Beach Resort. Hideaway Noosa is specifically marketed toward Gay and Bi Men for a comfortable get away. They have a daily pass that one can purchase for access to the resort just for the day if you stay somewhere else. This would be an excellent place for Bi men to meet other Gay or Bisexual men. Women might find this resort less appealing. You may have heard of Hedonism 2 in Jamaica, its quiet popular among the clothing optional crowd as it is a clothing optional resort. The resort is decent as far as food and room quality but the atmosphere is excellent. The service is great and the people you meet are the real reason for staying at “Hedo 2.” If you really want to meet other couples or singles go during the busy season, there are a lot more activities going on and a lot more people to meet, couples and singles in the peak season. We recommend this vacation for bisexual women but men will also find likeminded people here. If you want a relaxing vacation where you’re likely to meet other bisexual couples or singles check out these vacation spots. They’ll let you have a carefree, exciting, and enjoyable vacation with the right types of people you’d like to meet. Citybi.com can help you connect with bisexuals you meet from all over the world and let you keep in touch after your vacation is over. You can post pictures and videos from your vacation and plan events and meet ups with other bisexuals you’ve met around the world or couples you meet on Citybi. Citybi.com can help connect you with other couples that might want to vacation at the same types of places. Citybi.com is free and easy. More
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Bicurious? Spring into Bisexuality!
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Bicurious? Spring into Bisexuality!

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Are you Bicurious? Have you sometimes noticed that you are attracted to the same sex but never felt comfortable expressing your attraction or didn’t know how to go about exploring those feelings? Take the leap. You have the ability, will, and desire ...to satisfy those same sex feelings and Citybi.com can help. If you don’t want to come right out and tell the world that is perfectly ok. If you feel you want to explore this side of your sexuality before you decide to come out to your friends and family, Citybi.com can help you. Citybi.com can help you find a discrete bisexual friend to introduce you to bisexuality. On citybi.com everyone is at least a little bisexual. Spring is the perfect time to find a discrete bisexual partner or couple to help you see the better side of your sexuality. The sun is coming back, the snow is disappearing, the trees are starting to bud their leaves, bees and birds are coming back around, Life all around us is starting fresh again. It’s a perfect time for you to start fresh too, don’t go on another year suppressing your natural desires. This is your instincts we are talking about here. Don’t allow our society to determine what part of your life you choose to share and what to hide. You have the right to be yourself and if you can’t find understanding and loving people in the world, then you’re not looking on Citybi.com. Citybi.com is a social dating community for bisexuals and anyone in between. There are tons of bisexuals in every major city looking to make friends with Bicurious people like you. Just register a free profile and you’ll have the opportunity to meet Bisexuals, Gays, Lesbians, Transgender, Couples and other Bicurious people. It only takes a couple minutes to register and it’s free. Once you create a profile, you can communicate with other bisexuals a few different ways on citybi.com. You can post messages in the Citybi community where all members can see your message, you can search for and browse other bisexuals to meet and send them friend requests, publicly write a message or post a picture on another member’s wall, and personalize your profile with a background banner, a profile picture, and a sexy description of yourself and what or who you’re into. On citybi.com our pro-members can create and manage Groups and Events but all members can join groups if they are of interest. When you join a group and post a message to a group all the members in that group are notified and can see your message. If you make friends and are invited to an event, you can see the progress of the event and any changes to the time and location of the meet up or gathering.Citybi has members in most major cities in the US and some international cities like London, Toronto, and Sydney. The Major cities like New York, Houston, L.A., San Diego, Chicago, and San Antonio have lots of other bisexuals looking to make friends with other bisexual and bicurious people. If you don’t see your city on Citybi just Contact Us and we’ll add it and help you find bisexuals near you. So, Spring into Bisexuality and don’t look back! More
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Bisexual Couple Gift Guide
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Bisexual Couple Gift Guide

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Buying gifts for your significant other can be as torment as it is pleasure, especially if you together for a long time and you feel like you have already bought all there is. Perfume? Checked. Button down shirt? Checked. A dinner at a fancy restaura...nt? Checked… And you could probably go on like this for hours. Do not worry, the world is filled with gifts not yet bought and acts of love not yet performed. You just need some drive to get your imagination going.   Here, we will try to be that drive, by giving you a list of some possibly cool ideas for presenting to your loved one. A Free Pass to Your Life…   If you are not yet living with your partner, than you could give him/her some sort of free pass for your life. You can start with buying one more toothbrush for your bathroom or leaving some room in your wardrobe for his/her stuff. If you really want to step up the game, the keys of your apartment would not be such a bad idea. A Skill for a Lifetime   Nowadays, there is a course for everything. Find some area where your partner always wanted to participate (cooking, photography, etc.) and enroll him/her on the course. Or be slightly selfish and choose a massage course. No one will benefit of it as you will. Also, you can take a short massage course and give your significant other a massage he/she could only dream about. Something to Remember   You know all the jokes about Facebook’s profile photo and tagged photo? Well, unless you are incredibly photogenic and have a great camera, your photos with your partner are probably mostly tagged photos. So, take a day to create amazing memories, by hiring a photographer, going to some place that is special for you, choosing a nice outfit and striking a pose. Do not be too stiff, though; the greatest love pictures are the one photographed spontaneously. For the Love of Romance…   Yes, romantic dinners might be so yesterday’s idea, but if you play your cards right, you may wow your partner. First advice would be to cook yourself, and to decorate your dining room, terrace or backyard. You can also search for a chic and romantic restaurant you never went to. And, why not, even take a daytrip to some other city to discover its wonders. A Day of Pampering   Full spa treatment – do not mind if we do. Nothing beats a day of over-the-top pampering – from a relaxing massage (if it is a chocolate one even better), to pedicure and eventually a sauna; you will feel like you have got your own day in paradise. Make Your Own Movie Theater…   Did you know that during the ‘70s, there were hundreds of adult movie theaters spread across U.S.? Since now it is difficult to find one, recreate something similar in your room. If you lack of inspiration, remember the Scorsese’s Taxi Driver and the famous scene from the theater. Just do not run away as De Niro’s date. After you are done with creating the atmosphere, rent an adult movie and watch it with your partner. Three Is (Not) a Crowd   If both you and your partner have no problems with experimenting and if you have ever talked about a threesome and never seemed to make it happen, there is no better time than now. Just make sure that you choose the person with who you will share your intimacy very well, and that both you and your partner agree on the choice. Note that a threesome should not be a surprise, because both of you need to be a part of the planning process. These were just some ideas to get you started, of course, you should choose your gifts based on your significant other’s unique personality and preferences. Good luck. More
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Valentine's Day Gift Idea: Threesome!
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Valentine's Day Gift Idea: Threesome!

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If you’re wondering what to get your significant other for Valentine’s Day, look no further, get him or her a threesome! If you don’t know where to start in finding a third to complete your trio, check out our threesome guide. Has your partner mentio...ned or even straight out asked you for a threesome but you have just never made it happen? It’s understandable to be timid and shy about having a threesome. It is a very intimate part of your life that you will be sharing with another person. It can be a wonderful experience if you do it with compassion and make sure you are both 100% comfortable with the person, the location and atmosphere, and the specific acts you intend to engage in. The person that you want to turn your duo into a trio needs to be someone you both agree on. Do not plan a ‘surprise’ threesome. You both need to be part of the planning process for such an intimate and memorable night. You both need to tell each other what you want out of this threesome and be upfront with any potential third partners about what you expect from each other. The place and the atmosphere are incredibly important. Your bedroom is of course an option but maybe you would prefer a downtown hotel. Creating an atmosphere is more important than the actual location. You could play music, light candles, and decorate with flowers and red silk sheets. You’ll most likely want a bottle of Champaign or a nice wine for a Valentine’s Day toast; this will also loosen your inhibitions and calm your nerves. Do not make the decision to have a threesome while under the influence of alcohol. Rather make the decision while sober minded, and then enjoy a beverage when with your partners. Set boundaries with your partners as to what each person is comfortable with. This can be done while you select a partner, when searching for a threesome partner be upfront about what you want from them. This will avoid anyone feeling uncomfortable or disappointed. Having a threesome can be a wonderful experience for you and your significant other. It is a very fragile situation though and must be treated with incredible care and compassion. Do not pressure or surprise your partner into any situation that you have not discussed in detail. Citybi.com can help you find a partner for your threesome and you can meet other people that might be able to give you advice or share their experiences. If you and your partner are interested in a threesome you can register a couples profile for free. More
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Bisexual Dating Safety and Security

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Thursday, 09 June 2016
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Bisexual Dating Safety and Security

When we are meeting new people online it can be wonderfully exciting to get to know a potential new lover. However, while you get to know each other on an intimate level you must be careful not to give too much personal information too soon. We’ll discuss some ways you can protect yourself, your identity and your finances while still being able to have fun on your favorite Bisexual Dating Website. We’ll also give you some tips on how to safely set up a first date!


Protect Your Identity

Your Profile should NEVER include:


• Your Full Name- always use an alias. You can be creative and have fun making a username that might describe your character traits, hobbies your into, sexual desires or orientation, or something completely obscure.

• Your Address- Give your City and nothing more! All your potential matches need to know is if you’re in the same city or metropolitan area. Don’t tell people where you live with meeting them in public first and getting to know them a bit.

• Your Phone Number or Email- Your phone number and email address can be easily linked to your name and identity. Citybi.com gives you the ability to chat live on the website and send private messages that are sent directly to your email address. This allows you to communicate safely before exchanging personal contact info.

How to identify and report suspicious behavior


Be Leary When:

• A user wants you to communicate with email or by phone too quickly. Some people might be just eager to get to know you but you must keep your guard up and if they are genuine they will respect your privacy.

• Someone asks you for money. Do not, under any circumstances, transfer money to some that you’ve never met before. Scammers will sometimes give you a convincing sob story, don’t buy it!

• A message is hard to read because of poor English, grammar, or spelling. On Citybi.com there are many international members and they may just want to get know you and be friends. Many scammers may originate outside of the United States so be mindful of this.

First Date!

Always take these steps when going on a first date with someone you’ve met online:

• Agree to meet in a public place in day light. A coffee shop or a restaurant is a great place to meet for a first date. Public places are generally safe and places with a wait staff or retail clerk will ensure other people will see you for the duration of your date.

• Tell a friend or family member about your date. Tell someone close to you where you will be and when you’ll be returning. Without being rude, of course, keep in contact with your friend during your date, at least before and after. If you do hit it off with your date and you plan to go for a walk or see a movie, tell your friends where you’re going.

• Make your own way to and from the date. Drive your own car, a cab, Uber, or have a friend take you, either way DO NOT let your date pick you up or drop you off. Providing your transportation leaves you in control, this is important to staying safe on the first date.

• Citybi.com recommends keeping it to caffeine on the first date but if you do decide to have a drink, limit yourself to 1 or 2. Alcohol can be a vital asset to the dating world but getting too loose on the first date with a stranger can be asking for trouble.

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Bisexual online dating can be a fun and satisfying experience and if you follow these suggestions it will ensure you always have a great experience. Stay safe and we’ll see you on Citybi.com.

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Bisexual Couples Vacation Hot Spots

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Friday, 22 April 2016
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Bisexual Couples Vacation Hot Spots

Whether you’re married or just dating chances are you’d love a vacation in a Bisexual friendly atmosphere where you can truly relax and let loose. Citybi.com is passionate about connecting people, whether it is bisexual couples looking for a third or another couple to share an intimate experience with. Another great way to connect with other bisexuals is to meet other people from around the world while vacationing. So Citybi.com has come up with a brief list of Bisexual friendly vacation spots around the world.

Cancun, Mexico is home to the 5 star all inclusive resort called the Oasis Sens. This adult only resort has several restaurants and bars and 3 pools, ocean and bay view rooms, and in room Jacuzzis and private balconies. This romantic themed resort offers an array of accommodations like planned daily activities, free golf, and nightly entertainment. And of course all food and beverage included! The Oasis Sens is an affiliate of the International Gay and Lesbian Travel Association, so you’re bound to meet some other likeminded couples.

Swinger’s cruises like Bliss Cruise are an option for the very adventurous. This is not just a clothing optional boat (except for the dining areas). The Bliss Cruise has areas of the ship which are designated playrooms for sensual interactions. Meeting bisexual couples on this cruise will be easy and having a great time is almost guaranteed. The cruise organizers put on daily parties like Roman Orgy Toga Party, Wild Wild West, Glow Panty Rave, and Fetish Friday.

blog vacation beach babeLondon is a great city for swingers’ saunas. There are several throughout the city and they all have the same basic £20 entrance fee. They are typically towel only clubs, and have a variety of public areas and private rooms. They typically cater to straight couples and single women, and sometimes will restrict access to single men as not to unbalance the ratio. Specifically, Rio’s in London has a good gay following so this would be the best suggested sauna for bisexual couples.

In Peregian Beach, Australia is the Hideaway Noosa Men’s Beach Resort. Hideaway Noosa is specifically marketed toward Gay and Bi Men for a comfortable get away. They have a daily pass that one can purchase for access to the resort just for the day if you stay somewhere else. This would be an excellent place for Bi men to meet other Gay or Bisexual men. Women might find this resort less appealing.

You may have heard of Hedonism 2 in Jamaica, its quiet popular among the clothing optional crowd as it is a clothing optional resort. The resort is decent as far as food and room quality but the atmosphere is excellent. The service is great and the people you meet are the real reason for staying at “Hedo 2.” If you really want to meet other couples or singles go during the busy season, there are a lot more activities going on and a lot more people to meet, couples and singles in the peak season. We recommend this vacation for bisexual women but men will also find likeminded people here.

If you want a relaxing vacation where you’re likely to meet other bisexual couples or singles check out these vacation spots. They’ll let you have a carefree, exciting, and enjoyable vacation with the right types of people you’d like to meet. Citybi.com can help you connect with bisexuals you meet from all over the world and let you keep in touch after your vacation is over. You can post pictures and videos from your vacation and plan events and meet ups with other bisexuals you’ve met around the world or couples you meet on Citybi. Citybi.com can help connect you with other couples that might want to vacation at the same types of places. Citybi.com is free and easy.

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Bicurious? Spring into Bisexuality!

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Wednesday, 23 March 2016
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Bicurious? Spring into Bisexuality!

Are you Bicurious? Have you sometimes noticed that you are attracted to the same sex but never felt comfortable expressing your attraction or didn’t know how to go about exploring those feelings? Take the leap. You have the ability, will, and desire to satisfy those same sex feelings and Citybi.com can help. If you don’t want to come right out and tell the world that is perfectly ok. If you feel you want to explore this side of your sexuality before you decide to come out to your friends and family, Citybi.com can help you. Citybi.com can help you find a discrete bisexual friend to introduce you to bisexuality. On citybi.com everyone is at least a little bisexual.

Spring is the perfect time to find a discrete bisexual partner or couple to help you see the better side of your sexuality. The sun is coming back, the snow is disappearing, the trees are starting to bud their leaves, bees and birds are coming back around, Life all around us is starting fresh again. It’s a perfect time for you to start fresh too, don’t go on another year suppressing your natural desires. This is your instincts we are talking about here. Don’t allow our society to determine what part of your life you choose to share and what to hide. You have the right to be yourself and if you can’t find understanding and loving people in the world, then you’re not looking on Citybi.com.

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Citybi.com is a social dating community for bisexuals and anyone in between. There are tons of bisexuals in every major city looking to make friends with Bicurious people like you. Just register a free profile and you’ll have the opportunity to meet Bisexuals, Gays, Lesbians, Transgender, Couples and other Bicurious people. It only takes a couple minutes to register and it’s free. Once you create a profile, you can communicate with other bisexuals a few different ways on citybi.com. You can post messages in the Citybi community where all members can see your message, you can search for and browse other bisexuals to meet and send them friend requests, publicly write a message or post a picture on another member’s wall, and personalize your profile with a background banner, a profile picture, and a sexy description of yourself and what or who you’re into.

On citybi.com our pro-members can create and manage Groups and Events but all members can join groups if they are of interest. When you join a group and post a message to a group all the members in that group are notified and can see your message. If you make friends and are invited to an event, you can see the progress of the event and any changes to the time and location of the meet up or gathering.
Citybi has members in most major cities in the US and some international cities like London, Toronto, and Sydney. The Major cities like New York, Houston, L.A., San Diego, Chicago, and San Antonio have lots of other bisexuals looking to make friends with other bisexual and bicurious people. If you don’t see your city on Citybi just Contact Us and we’ll add it and help you find bisexuals near you.

So, Spring into Bisexuality and don’t look back!

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Bisexual Couple Gift Guide

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Monday, 14 March 2016
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Bisexual Couple Gift Guide

Buying gifts for your significant other can be as torment as it is pleasure, especially if you together for a long time and you feel like you have already bought all there is. Perfume? Checked. Button down shirt? Checked. A dinner at a fancy restaurant? Checked… And you could probably go on like this for hours. Do not worry, the world is filled with gifts not yet bought and acts of love not yet performed. You just need some drive to get your imagination going.

 

Here, we will try to be that drive, by giving you a list of some possibly cool ideas for presenting to your loved one.



A Free Pass to Your Life…

 

If you are not yet living with your partner, than you could give him/her some sort of free pass for your life. You can start with buying one more toothbrush for your bathroom or leaving some room in your wardrobe for his/her stuff. If you really want to step up the game, the keys of your apartment would not be such a bad idea.



A Skill for a Lifetime

 

Nowadays, there is a course for everything. Find some area where your partner always wanted to participate (cooking, photography, etc.) and enroll him/her on the course. Or be slightly selfish and choose a massage course. No one will benefit of it as you will. Also, you can take a short massage course and give your significant other a massage he/she could only dream about.



Something to Remember

 

You know all the jokes about Facebook’s profile photo and tagged photo? Well, unless you are incredibly photogenic and have a great camera, your photos with your partner are probably mostly tagged photos. So, take a day to create amazing memories, by hiring a photographer, going to some place that is special for you, choosing a nice outfit and striking a pose. Do not be too stiff, though; the greatest love pictures are the one photographed spontaneously.



For the Love of Romance…

 

Yes, romantic dinners might be so yesterday’s idea, but if you play your cards right, you may wow your partner. First advice would be to cook yourself, and to decorate your dining room, terrace or backyard. You can also search for a chic and romantic restaurant you never went to. And, why not, even take a daytrip to some other city to discover its wonders.



A Day of Pampering

 

Full spa treatment – do not mind if we do. Nothing beats a day of over-the-top pampering – from a relaxing massage (if it is a chocolate one even better), to pedicure and eventually a sauna; you will feel like you have got your own day in paradise.



Make Your Own Movie Theater…

 

Did you know that during the ‘70s, there were hundreds of adult movie theaters spread across U.S.? Since now it is difficult to find one, recreate something similar in your room. If you lack of inspiration, remember the Scorsese’s Taxi Driver and the famous scene from the theater. Just do not run away as De Niro’s date. After you are done with creating the atmosphere, rent an adult movie and watch it with your partner.



Three Is (Not) a Crowd

 

If both you and your partner have no problems with experimenting and if you have ever talked about a threesome and never seemed to make it happen, there is no better time than now. Just make sure that you choose the person with who you will share your intimacy very well, and that both you and your partner agree on the choice. Note that a threesome should not be a surprise, because both of you need to be a part of the planning process.


These were just some ideas to get you started, of course, you should choose your gifts based on your significant other’s unique personality and preferences. Good luck.

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Valentine's Day Gift Idea: Threesome!

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Saturday, 06 February 2016
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Valentine's Day Gift Idea: Threesome!

If you’re wondering what to get your significant other for Valentine’s Day, look no further, get him or her a threesome! If you don’t know where to start in finding a third to complete your trio, check out our threesome guide.


Has your partner mentioned or even straight out asked you for a threesome but you have just never made it happen? It’s understandable to be timid and shy about having a threesome. It is a very intimate part of your life that you will be sharing with another person. It can be a wonderful experience if you do it with compassion and make sure you are both 100% comfortable with the person, the location and atmosphere, and the specific acts you intend to engage in.


The person that you want to turn your duo into a trio needs to be someone you both agree on. Do not plan a ‘surprise’ threesome. You both need to be part of the planning process for such an intimate and memorable night. You both need to tell each other what you want out of this threesome and be upfront with any potential third partners about what you expect from each other.


The place and the atmosphere are incredibly important. Your bedroom is of course an option but maybe you would prefer a downtown hotel. Creating an atmosphere is more important than the actual location. You could play music, light candles, and decorate with flowers and red silk sheets. You’ll most likely want a bottle of Champaign or a nice wine for a Valentine’s Day toast; this will also loosen your inhibitions and calm your nerves. Do not make the decision to have a threesome while under the influence of alcohol. Rather make the decision while sober minded, and then enjoy a beverage when with your partners.


Set boundaries with your partners as to what each person is comfortable with. This can be done while you select a partner, when searching for a threesome partner be upfront about what you want from them. This will avoid anyone feeling uncomfortable or disappointed.


Having a threesome can be a wonderful experience for you and your significant other. It is a very fragile situation though and must be treated with incredible care and compassion. Do not pressure or surprise your partner into any situation that you have not discussed in detail. Citybi.com can help you find a partner for your threesome and you can meet other people that might be able to give you advice or share their experiences. If you and your partner are interested in a threesome you can register a couples profile for free.

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